Just broke up? Or maybe you are still together with your boyfriend but recently, he is beginning to ignore you. So what does that mean if your boyfriend starts to ignore you?
Well, if your boyfriend is beginning to ignore you, something is definitely not right. This is certainly not a good sign. It shows that he is starting to take you for granted or he has simply lose interest in you.
I have seen this situation happening a lot of times. When a boyfriend starts to ignore you, almost 90% of the time, it means a break up may be happening very soon unless you something about it.
If you don’t do anything about it, the situation is not going to improve by itself.
Here are some questions that you may want to ask yourself.
1) Are you hearing a lot less from him than you used to? For example, he doesn’t call you every night when he used to do so?
2) Does he give you excuses such as he is busy and thus cannot see you?
3) Does he prefer to spend time with his friends than with you?
4) Is he a lot less affectionate than before?
5) Does he get easily irritated by you than before?
6) Does he try to argue with you over small things? This is often a prelude to breaking up. He can easily use the excuse ‘we fight too much, maybe we should break up’.
It is also very important to know what doesn’t work. Perhaps you have been trying very hard to get his attention. For example, maybe you try to call him more often. Unfortunately, the harder you try, the more he is going to resist you.
So what should you do instead?
Well, there is an article that teaches you the psychological tactics you can use if your boyfriend is ignoring you. Just click on the link below to read the article.
If You Have Already Broken Up With Your Boyfriend
Your boyfriend has recently decided to break up with you and you are obviously feeling extremely devastated.
You tried contacting your boyfriend but he is ignoring you. You tried calling him but he didn’t pick up the phone. You tried sending him lots of text messages but he didn’t even bother to reply. Now, you are not sure what to do next.
Well, fret not! You are definitely not alone. I have seen many women facing the same situation as you.
The most important thing for you to do now is to relax and stay calm. You cannot win your boyfriend back when you are in the panic mode.
First, you need to understand that there is still hope to save your relationship. Just because your boyfriend is ignoring you doesn’t necessary mean the demise of your relationship. There are many women who have faced similar situation but they still managed to get back together with their boyfriend eventually.
I hope the statement above has given you some hope. Hope is important if you wish to get your boyfriend back. Without hope, you won’t even bother trying.
Next, you need to understand that there is always a reason why your boyfriend is ignoring you. Knowing the reasons will help you come up with a solution.
One possible reason is that your boyfriend is simply not ready to talk to you at this moment. The fact is both of you have just broken up. If your boyfriend doesn’t wish to talk to you at this moment, just respect his wishes.
Maybe he is as upset as you. Maybe he needs time and space. Just give him the time and space that he needs.
Just because your boyfriend is ignoring you now doesn’t necessary mean he is going to ignore you in the future. Don’t worry too much for the time being. Stop contacting him now. You can try contacting him again about one month later. Most probably, he will be willing to talk to you by then.