Well, this is very normal. Just like you, there are many women out there who are currently going through the pain of a break up. They still love their boyfriend very much and they do not really want to break up. What makes thing worse is that it is their boyfriend who decided to dump them, which makes it an even more painful experience.
Just like you, there are many women out there who are trying to get their boyfriend back but they do not know what to do. This is definitely not a very good thing because if you do not know what to do, it is very likely that you are going to do the wrong things. And of course, doing the wrong things is going to push your ex boyfriend away, making it a lot harder for you to win him back.
Unfortunately, there is no so called shortcut when it comes to getting an ex boyfriend back. I know many people hope to find some shortcut that can easily help them get an ex back. Unfortunately, that is very unlikely to happen. If there is really a shortcut that works for everyone, everyone will already be back together and break up will not be a big deal since it is so easy to get back together with an ex.
Before you try to get your ex boyfriend back, make sure you are making the right decision. Basically, what I am trying to say is that if the relationship is not meant to be, you may be better off letting go of the relationship. If you are able to let go, you will feel so much happier and you can start looking for the ideal relationship that you have always wanted even if you cannot get the ex boyfriend back.